tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18508998.post1256696810905767430..comments2023-06-17T03:39:45.051-04:00Comments on A Lovely Brown Girl: real {morbid} talkLovely Brown Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08424575781434191366noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18508998.post-40103813656047798102010-09-14T18:44:37.541-04:002010-09-14T18:44:37.541-04:00I had that revelation when I left MN. Once I got t...I had that revelation when I left MN. Once I got to NYC, I saw that no one remembered what I wore from day to day. No one cared what I did or said. No one was policing me, but me. It freed me up to be myself unabashedly. And with practice, I have learned to do it in almost every situation. And that is a large part of living with integrity. One of my favorite quotes (it's on my fb page) is by Dr. Seuss: "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter. And those who matter don't mind."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com